Posts by David Sarnacki

The Valley of the Shadow of Divide: Building Conversations   In the divorce world, there is division. In mediation, there is division. And more broadly, in our world, there is division. Despite the shadow of divide, there is hope for building conversations. At Columbia University, the lab of Dr. Peter T. Coleman and his team…

The Problem. We lose track of and lose control of time in a trial. The one more question, one more point, one more witness begets a second. Trials almost always take longer than expected, and the judge’s time is a terrible thing to waste. Efficiency and impact are tied to keeping interest. Efficiency is one…

Understanding Child Support in Grand Rapids: A Practical Guide   Child support issues can be overwhelming, especially during an emotionally charged divorce. At Sarnacki Law Firm, we aim to make this process as clear, simple, and stress-free as possible for families in the Grand Rapids area.   Here’s a practical guide to understanding child support…

Why a Prenup Might Be the Best Decision for Your Marriage   Protect Your Future: The Practical Benefits of Prenuptial Agreements   Marriage is a significant milestone, and while it is a time for celebration and joy, it is also a time for important conversations about the future. One such conversation should be about prenuptial…

Everybody Wants to Rule the World: What’s Your Go-To Tactic?   In my divorce and mediation practice, I see people changing. Whatever balance they had in their own corner of the universe has been jarred. Nothing ever lasts forever. Whatever worked for them in the past no longer works. There’s no turning back. Change has…

The Role of Depositions in Divorce Litigation   Depositions in Divorce Litigation: What You Need to Know   Depositions are a critical part of the discovery process in divorce litigation. They provide an opportunity to gather information and assess the credibility of witnesses before trial. At Sarnacki Law Firm, we ensure you are well-prepared for…

Navigating Divorce with Mediation: A Practical Guide   Divorce is never easy, but mediation offers a useful way to handle disputes and reach agreements amicably. At Sarnacki Law Firm in Grand Rapids, we specialize in mediation services to help you and your partner navigate this challenging time efficiently and respectfully.   Here’s what you need…

What to Expect at a Divorce Trial   Preparing for Court: What to Expect at a Divorce Trial   When negotiations and ADR fail, a divorce trial becomes necessary. Understanding what to expect can help you feel more prepared and confident. At Sarnacki Law Firm, we provide comprehensive guidance and representation throughout the trial process.…

Advocacy, Storytelling & Interviewing: Which of Ira Glass’ Secrets Will You Use Today? “[T]ell us stories that help us empathize and help us feel less crazy and less separate. And just, you know, go straight to your heart.”—Ira Glass   This article offers big ideas based on my reading of commentary from Ira Glass, the…

Navigating Property Division in Divorce: A Practical Guide   Dividing property during a divorce can be one of the most challenging aspects of the process. At Sarnacki Law Firm, we aim to simplify this complex issue for you. Here’s a practical guide to help you understand property division and ensure a fair outcome.   Understanding…